Why do Arminians have such a small view of God?

Who cares if Job knew about Satan's actions or not. That's irrelevant. Job expresses remarkable faith and a belief that God ordains both good and bad. Nowhere do we see God rebuke Job for his statement.
What we see God rebuke Job for is Job's attempt to put the infinite God into a box. This is what I see you doing when you require that God must give humans free will. God isn't required to fit into your philosophy of free will.

All we can conclude about God's work is what God reveals to us in His word. To add something God never declares, merely because it makes sense to our minds is to attempt to put God in a box.

What then does God tell us about His work?

We read in numerous places that God chooses. We read that God predestines. We read that God adopts. These are undeniable things that God very frankly tells us. What we never read about is free will. God never discusses the subject anywhere in His speaking to man.

 

What did I say? It isn't what you claim I say. The circle is in your mind. Open it up to what God is saying, not what you want God to be saying.

 

God's word is not a hamster wheel. It's too bad you have closed your mind to reading and understanding God's word in an attempt to cling to a philosophy of free will not supported by God's word.

There is only one way to know God and that is by reading His words. Any attempt to force God into the constraints of a philosophy unsupported by God's word is an attempt to create a small god that we control.

 

I will gladly circle around the word of God.
I notice you refuse to address Romans 3, Ephesians 1 and Ephesians 2.

We can look at John 3.
Note in the dialogue with Nicodemus that it is the Holy Spirit who gives life to our spirit (just like Ephesians 2).
Look at your two verses. Note the great work of God for those who would believe. Note as well that there is nothing about free will.
Notice that verse 20 agrees with Romans 3. No one seeks after God, not even one.
Reynolds, your passage is not about free will even in the least. You are trying to force your human philosophy onto the text and shove a square peg into a round hole. At what point will you let God's word speak for itself and let your pride fall as God becomes your Master?

John 3:1-21
[1]There was a man named Nicodemus, a Jewish religious leader who was a Pharisee.
[2]After dark one evening, he came to speak with Jesus. “Rabbi,” he said, “we all know that God has sent you to teach us. Your miraculous signs are evidence that God is with you.”
[3]Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, unless you are born again, you cannot see the Kingdom of God.”
[4]“What do you mean?” exclaimed Nicodemus. “How can an old man go back into his mother’s womb and be born again?”
[5]Jesus replied, “I assure you, no one can enter the Kingdom of God without being born of water and the Spirit.
[6]Humans can reproduce only human life, but the Holy Spirit gives birth to spiritual life.
[7]So don’t be surprised when I say, ‘You must be born again.’
[8]The wind blows wherever it wants. Just as you can hear the wind but can’t tell where it comes from or where it is going, so you can’t explain how people are born of the Spirit.”
[9]“How are these things possible?” Nicodemus asked.
[10]Jesus replied, “You are a respected Jewish teacher, and yet you don’t understand these things?
[11]I assure you, we tell you what we know and have seen, and yet you won’t believe our testimony.
[12]But if you don’t believe me when I tell you about earthly things, how can you possibly believe if I tell you about heavenly things?
[13]No one has ever gone to heaven and returned. But the Son of Man has come down from heaven.
[14]And as Moses lifted up the bronze snake on a pole in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up,
[15]so that everyone who believes in him will have eternal life.
[16]“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.
[17]God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him.
[18]“There is no judgment against anyone who believes in him. But anyone who does not believe in him has already been judged for not believing in God’s one and only Son.
[19]And the judgment is based on this fact: God’s light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil.
[20]All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed.
[21]But those who do what is right come to the light so others can see that they are doing what God wants.”

 

I am still waiting for biblical evidence where man's will is free to go outside the boundary of God's ordained will.
That is the essence of why free will cannot exist. The will cannot escape the boundary of God’s will.