Of course that's true. What happened with me was that I was disappointed with the lack of seriousness when it came to living the Christian life in my old church. I started reading guys outside my normal scope of gurus and found a seriousness and warm preaching that I had been missing. They were Puritans and guys like Jerry Bridges and Paul Washer and Charles Spurgeon. I was so unsophisticated theologically that I did not know what Calvinism was. I had been told that Calvin and Luther were "wrong on baptism, wrong on the Lord's supper, what's the use of listening to them"! People on a theological board like this may laugh but after going on about the teaching of Bunyan to an older Christian he told me Bunyan was a Calvinist and I was really offended. It was after that that I began to look at some of the theological claims of Calvinism with a different attitude.
You know, before the internet, in the middle ages, (the '70's), you could not find most of the Puritan writings in paperback. Had not Banner of Truth started publishing and Martyn LLoyd-Jones and some guys in England begin finding and republishing some of the Puritan's I don't think the resurgence in Calvinism would have occurred. My first exposure to Spurgeon was a sermon reprinted in "Sword of the Lord" so you know where I'm coming from.
Have to agree on the wishy washy type of preaching that we find in many churches. I was just fortunate to not grow up with that type.
What I have read, and it is limited, I have found to just push what they think. But that is to be expected.

I was just always taught that the bible was the bedrock of my faith. People can have their ideas about what the bible says and some can make those ideas sound good and even compelling, but if when I hear or read them I get that not quite right feeling then sorry not for me.
I think CH Spurgeon said it best:
"DISCERNMENT is not simply telling the difference between what is
Right and Wrong; rather, it is the difference between
Right and almost right."
Here is another quote from CHS that I really like:
"My faith rests not in what I am, or shall be, or feel, or know, but in what Christ is, in what He has done and in what He is now doing for me."
As you may guess I do like Spurgeon, he was baptist after all. And it may surprise you but I have listened to a number of sermons by Paul Washer. He is Godly in his preaching but I can not agree with all the he says.