My error then. But did you listen to the entire podcast? Lots of clips of Ray come in and out of the entire podcast. Ray is convicted on the gospel and convicted the friendship evangelism that woman promoted is wrong.
Actually, I believe that woman promoted what is called "lifestyle" evangelism, that by living a good Christian life you influence folks to be saved. There is actually some support for this in scripture.
1 Cor 7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
There have been many stories of a believing wife or husband leading their unbelieving spouse to Christ by living a godly example. So, there is some support for this type of witness.
But we are also told to go out and preach the gospel.