I see, Brother Joseph, that our discussion is going to be curtailed.
Here is part of the boatload of assertions that we will not be able to discuss:
Finally, the atonement could not apply to all men because of what scripture tells us it actually accomplished (not potentially accomplished). The Bible has many passages of scripture that makes this undeniably clear-
"For by one offering he hath perfected for ever them that are sanctified" (Hebrews 10:14)
"For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life" (Romans 5:10)
"Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him." (Romans 5:9)
"Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:" (Galatians 3:13)
"In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace" (Ephesians 1:7)
"By the which will we are sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all." (Hebrews 10:10)
Hebrews 10:14 refers to those who have been placed in Christ, i.e. set apart or sanctified. Thus does not support your premise.
Romans 5:10 does not say "when" we were reconciled. But we were reconciled, i.e. received the reconciliation, when God placed us spiritually in Christ, and we underwent the circumcision of Christ.
Romans 5:9 does not say "when" we were justified. But we were justified when God placed us spiritually in Christ and we underwent the circumcision of Christ.
Galatians 3:13 does not say "when" we were redeemed.
Ephesians 1:7 actually supports my view, for only "In Him" do we have redemption.
Hebrews 10:10 does not say "when" we were sanctified. But when we were set apart (sanctified) in Christ, we were washed with His blood.
Think of the cross as a two step program. When He died, He paid the ransom for all, thus enabling the salvation of anyone God chooses to place spiritually in Christ. Only those placed in Christ, have their body of flesh (sin burden) removed. Not to sound too Calvinistic, but the ransom was sufficient for all, but only those chosen by God and placed spiritually in Christ, receive the reconciliation provided by His death. Those who have not "received the reconciliation" still have their "sin burden" which will be paid in full in Hades and Gehenna.