You have several problems with equating these "filled with the Holy Ghost" incidents with "born again".
Keep in mind all scriptures must exist in harmony, there are no contradictions.
1) John's testimony states that being "born again" is the receiving of the Holy Spirit.
If thou knewest the gift of God, and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; thou wouldest have asked of him, and he would have given thee living water.
Here you defeat your own argument. Jesus said if you had of asked, I would of given you "living water", of which you are basing your argument on "born again" completely, as if God could not do something to His Glory and Honor, because it was going to be used later as a part of what He was setting up.
a) "the gift of God" is eternal life.
b) "who it is" is the One who can give eternal life.
c) "thou would have asked" is the calling on Jesus for the eternal life.
d) "he" (Jesus) would have given thee "living water". "Living water" is the means by which the Holy Spirit gives of Himself for regeneration of the believer.
You are saying there was no eternal life, until after Jesus died. I have you know that all those who died in faith believing, even before Christ came were saved and when Jesus died his blood covered them because of their "faith". You seem to think we are so much different than those who were under the OT, again, we are the same creatures and it took the blood of Christ to cover them in their future and it takes the blood of Christ to cover us that was shed in our past. Both came by "faith".
What about all the scripture that says "thy faith hath made thee whole"?
Jhn 7:38He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of
living water.
Jhn 7:39(
But this spake he of the Spirit, which they that believe on him should receive:
for the Holy Ghost was not yet [given]; because that Jesus was not yet glorified.)
This is your first delima. Harmonize the scriptures you posted of being "filled with the Holy Ghost" with the fact that Jhn 7:39 declares the rebirth of receiving living water (Holy Spirit)
was not yet given because Jesus was not yet glorified.
So you do not believe in the Trinity until after Jesus arose from the dead?
Further investigation of scripture will deliver a second delima...
2)
Eph 5:18 And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be
filled with the Spirit;
Delima #2, why would the scripture instruct Christians to be "filled with the Spirit" if being "filled with the Spirit" is being "born again"? Something a Christian has already been through.
Before the Grace Covenant was being set up by Jesus Christ and the Apostles and God did whatever it took to get the Job done, including the death of His Son, raising the dead for the Glory and honor of God.
Now we are talking about how that Grace Covenant works for mankind.
You are trying to put God in a box, where He was not able to do but the exact same thing every time about every thing. Again, God did what He had to do.
3)
Num 22:28 And the LORD opened the mouth of the ass, and she said unto Balaam, What have I done unto thee, that thou hast smitten me these three times?
The Holy Spirit of God works in many ways and has many ministries. As for "born again", this is the ministry of "living water" which was not yet given until Jesus was glorified.
You would not say that the ass was "born again" because the Spirit of God spoke through it, would you?
No, but I would not deny that the ass had the indwelling of the Holy Spirit for a time either.
Can you harmonize points 1&2 with your view of being "filled with the Holy Ghost"?
Just did, "Power of God".
I believe I have presented harmony through demonstrating that the Spirit has different ministries at differing times.
How will you present harmony with these scriptures?