BTW Catholics I've spoken with (including my Father) insist that once you're in Christ you're not dead and that you still participate in the church.
1. What they believe (according to their Catechism) is not what they practice.
2. Very few Catholics don't have a clue what their Catechism actually says.
3. What they mean by being "in Christ" is not the same as what the Bible teaches about "being in Christ."
4. In spite of what they say, their true belief is that salvation comes only through the RCC.
5. Look up in the Catholic Catechism what it means to be "born again."
One is made alive in Christ by being born again which is being baptized into the Catholic Church--an obvious heresy.
You say which Catholics will tell you is a blatant lie.
Of course they will say it is a blatant lie. They don't know what the Bible says; don't study the Bible; aren't allowed to study the Bible without the priest's interpretation. To question their own religion is just like heresy even when it is wrong. But the truth is that purgatory takes away from the sufficiency of the blood of Christ. If they can't see the truthfulness of that doctrine then they are blind to truth; which they are.
They believe Jesus paid the penalty of their sins : and again From their own teaching.
If that is true then why does:
1. A priest must first intercede for them, and
2. Mary has more power to intercede for them than Christ, and
3. Mary intercedes for them on behalf of Christ.
This Mariolotry is idolatry, worship of the dead, and makes Mary a god.
So they would say you're misrepresenting their position. FYI. It's nice to know you prayed to Mary as a Catholic. Having been raised Catholic myself I was lucky if I prayed at all. Most of the time I was just repeating words that I had no idea what they meant.
Praying to Mary is idolatry. It is wrong. It is blasphemous. Only God deserves our worship. Mary is treated as another god in the RCC. Mary is treated as both omnipresent and omniscient.
How can Mary be both present all around the world, and all-knowing all around the world in order to hear and answer all the prayers of all the one billion Catholics scattered all over this world. Mary is dead. She is not God. She does not have the attributes of God. This is blasphemous.