when Adam sinned against God, he found that his relationship with God was severed/cut off, as he was now under judgements of both physical/spiritual death!
ALL of us now born as sinners, and as such, in and by ourselves we will not come to the Lord, as we prefer darkness to the light!
ONLY those whom the Lord has enabled to come to Christ will be able to, and the difference between cals and Arms is that we say that God ONLY enables those whom he elected to receive Christ, while arms see it as God gracing ALL to potentially become the elect, that part up to us and how we then respond to Jesus!
		
		
	 
Good post!  (except for "that part up to us...")
Let me further add that when the fall of Adam occurred it was by direct choice of Adam choosing Eve over God.  The fellowship with God was lost to Adam.  He could do NOTHING to regain the state of Eden where he could fellowship and call upon God.  He was not only put out of the garden but was banned/barred from ever returning to that place.  So it is with all men for all have sinned.
The thinking that man has a "free will" or "free choice" then is faulty.  For does not the Scriptures consistently teach that sin is binding, a slave owner, and that a person who is not saved is sin filled - completely in sin?  When was ever a person in such a condition that they were "free?"  Adam was not free, he had no choice after he sinned.  He remained under the judgment of God.  Even the working conditions changed.  
The Scriptures also teach that when one is "in Christ" they are subject to the thinking and things of God.  The determiner in the life of a believer is the Holy Spirit.  Man, "in Christ," has the whole economy of their existence bound up in He who loved us and gave Himself for us.  
I see no 
free will, 
free choice, freedom of consequences anywhere in Scriptures.
Again, just because a person is shown divergent paths, various alternatives does not make them free to choose.  Being shown doesn't equate to ability to choose.
Example:
Consider a person who has been shoved off a cliff (wages of sin has committed the person to death).   On the way down, they may spot many paths, many alternative positions to take in both the fall and the landing.  There is no alternative to falling.  No free will. No choice.  They are dead as they still fall.  No physical, mental, emotional, vocal, or any other appeal by that person will stem the fall.  They are dead.  
Now consider such a person when God comes as a great eagle grabbing that person out of the midst of the fall unto death.  Again, there is seen on the skyward journey many paths, many alternative positions to be clutched and held.  But the person is firmly in the grasp of the eagle - clutched as the eagle desires, the path taken as the eagle establishes, and the person is taken to where the eagle determines, never, not one bit under or by the strength of the person.
Man is not as a fish in the sea swimming about to perchance upon the hook of Christ baited with enticing words and cunning emotional appeal.
No "free will."  No "free choice."