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child baptism right or wrong ?

John of Japan

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We moved from the USA to England and there aren't any Southern Baptist churches around us. I don't like the Strict Baptist or London Baptist churches. My wife likes to go to the Methodist church with her family but I don't like that church. So I go to a pentecostal church but I don't want to be a member there or at the Methodist church.
Southern Baptists are not the only kind. And other churches can be Scriptural, such as many "Bible churches." A good "Brethren" church might be an option.
 

Wesley Briggman

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The episode with Michael Servetus is enough to convince me.

My cursory research of M. Servetus revealed that he rejected the Trinity. I would appreciate more resources from you to relate him to the OP concerning child baptism.

Thank you for your reply.
 

OnlyaSinner

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The episode with Michael Servetus is enough to convince me.
1 Cor. 10:12, "Wherefore, let him who thinketh he standeth, take heed lest he fall." That verse tells me that I am capable of the most heinous sins, save for the eternal one of rejecting Christ's offer of salvation. That was taken care of many years ago, and I believe the Bible when it says in John 10 that no one can take Christ's own from His hand. If I'm capable of that, then John Calvin also was equally capable. I don't see that as grounds for doubting his salvation.
 

Squire Robertsson

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From what I've read from our British members, the "Brethren" churches in England are a bit more insular than those here in the States. But, I get what you're saying about expanding beyond the American flavor of Baptists. Me I'd recommend checking out an Evangelical Christian-Baptist congregation. That is if he can find one with translators from Russian to English.
A good "Brethren" church might be an option.
 

Yeshua1

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My cursory research of M. Servetus revealed that he rejected the Trinity. I would appreciate more resources from you to relate him to the OP concerning child baptism.

Thank you for your reply.
You also MUST read into the prevailing thought regarding Christianity and how heinius a crome that was viewd as being, and not take a modern day America view back to it!
 

robycop3

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Hi,

I have been struggling to come to a decision on whether I should baptize my child he is 4 months old. I wouldn't be for the child baptism typically because I was baptized when I was 7 and I like lots of things about that. My wife was baptized as a baby and she wants to baptize our son. I have seeked doctrinal answers but I can't find a clear scripture that condems it. Do you know of any? Is it a big deal to baptize the baby? If the child wants to be baptized again when they are older so they have a memory of it then they can. But I was raised believing it was wrong to baptize a baby. What do you think? Or what is the best way I can seek an answer?


My personal belief is that baptizing a baby only produces a wet baby. Baptism is a public declaration by the baptizee that he/she has come to jesus & been saved.

I believe baptism is to be done only after salvation.
 

robycop3

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I also believe that baby baptism is done to make the PARENTS feel better and is an outward show of THEIR supposed piety. However, I don't believe they're sinning by doing it. I simply don't believe it benefits an unknowing child.
 

Alcott

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child baptism right or wrong ?

Not a concern of mine; the one who baptized me was close to 40.
 

Jerome

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methodist.org.uk/our-faith/life-and-faith/life-events/infant-thanksgiving/

"Some parents believe, on reflection, that a service of baptism is not the most appropriate service for them and their child. They may think it is too weighty in terms of their own faith, or that the promises involved go beyond what they can say with integrity. Some parents may be adopting a child who has already been baptized. Some may have a child who was baptized in emergency circumstances in hospital or at home. Other parents, who may themselves be committed Christians, feel strongly (because baptism is so meaningful) that they want their child to be able to ask for baptism, if and when they are ready to respond for themselves. All nevertheless want to thank God publicly now for the safe arrival of their child and express their love for that child. This can be done at a service called an 'Act of Thanksgiving after the Birth or Adoption of a Child'. If you are not sure whether Baptism or an Act of Thanksgiving would be more appropriate for you and your child, talk it through with your minister, who will be able to advise."
 

Wesley Briggman

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I also believe that baby baptism is done to make the PARENTS feel better and is an outward show of THEIR supposed piety. However, I don't believe they're sinning by doing it. I simply don't believe it benefits an unknowing child.

I am troubled by your conclusion that infant baptism is not sin. It is not condoned in scripture. Furthermore, it could reinforce other non-scriptural practices.

Consider:

Rom 14:13 KJV - Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in [his] brother's way.

1Co 8:9 KJV - But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumblingblock to them that are weak.

My motto: Neither condemn what God condones nor condone what God condemns.
 

Rob_BW

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From what I've read from our British members, the "Brethren" churches in England are a bit more insular than those here in the States. But, I get what you're saying about expanding beyond the American flavor of Baptists. Me I'd recommend checking out an Evangelical Christian-Baptist congregation. That is if he can find one with translators from Russian to English.

I reckon I'm the odd man out, if I am more apt to think of the Dunkard Brethern when the term brethern church comes up.
 

Reformed

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I also believe that baby baptism is done to make the PARENTS feel better and is an outward show of THEIR supposed piety. However, I don't believe they're sinning by doing it. I simply don't believe it benefits an unknowing child.
That is not the reason Presbyterians baptize their babies. They baptize their babies because they believe it makes their children members of the New Covenant community. That is diametrically opposed to Baptist theology which teaches the only members of the New Covenant community are believers in the Lord Jesus Christ. Methodists believe infant baptism works with prevenient grace and assists the child in their ability to understand spiritual truths as the child grows and matures. The Methodist view is wrong because there is no such thing as prevenient grace. So, infant baptism is sinful because it misinterprets and misapplies scripture.
 
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