I must chime in that I have made my choice for now, and the only thing I am debating now are various aspects of eternal security. That said, I don't know if you guys having a debate is allowed given the original post. Perhaps it would be best to make a new thread to carry on a debate, because to me, the original poster, this debate is over except for aspects of OSAS.
Well the debate throws into focus who's perspective is valid concerning "Saved" by my own personal perspective or God's?
For example being able to point to God from the "get-go" who would be wrong in declaring I am forever saved?
The common perspective is egoistic perspective, its all about me and getting what I want out of it.
Matthew 16
24Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me.
25“For
whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.
26“For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
Where category do you fall in Steven? as one who wishes to save his life? A life is a life, plenty are willing to give up their life for Christ, but plenty would never part over their "eternal" life.
You have to consider also the focus of timing. Anyone who is in heaven probably has no problem declaring once saved always saved, and even to question it carries sin in its essence. A very subtle hint of faithlessness or in plain English..... a lack of trust which can be traced back to Adam and Eve as the sin that caused all problems.
Are you willing to lose eternal life for Christ's sake? There is ONE highest priority not two or three, but here is where the math doesn't make sense to people because they keep trying to split Christ from us. The highest priority is to Love GOD and Love Neighbor. Salvation as in the sense as how many people tote it around is not even in the picture.
The minute you take your eyes off Christ to oil check salvation is the same minute you lost it.
Why because that's when we look on our greatest idol our own ego rather then putting your focus on God, who by the way is your best bet getting you through this labyrinth.