Amen! And so do I. But you are straying from the issue. Do you trust God to be Just and send your child to hell? Or do you trust God to have mercy and save your child from hell?
Both. God is perfect in His mercy and Justice.
Or if God's plan was to not save due to you trusting He would be Just rather than merciful?
What?
You saying God is just to reject those that trust? Those people to not exist. Or do you mean that God's choice of election is not due to man's works? I agree with the 2nd. God's salvation starts with presentation and knowing people not deeds. Romans 8:29. His election is not determined by my actions. His election determines my actions (accepting Jesus).
Calvinist[s ] do not care if their child is hated by God.
Blatantly untrue. They just love and trust God foremost. As Scripture tells them to. And we believe Scripture when it says " ...and he does according to his will among the host of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can stay his hand or say to him, “What have you done?”" Dan 4:35
You admit your trusting God does not change anything.
I admit it. God's actions are not dependant on me. I have zero control or influence on Him. He is God and does according to His will, not my will. He is God, not me.
Trusting God really becomes meaningless wouldn't you say?
Not at all. His ways are perfect. Mine are not. His actions are flawless, mine are not. His will be done, not mine. I trust His will over mine and any other. His decrees are perfect and reflect his flawless love, justice and mercy.
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