Very good point Webdog...and one I had not really considered...under the Calvinism position one has to believe that God moves from loving all children to then making some the objects of His wrath...
All of men are under the wrath of God at some point until they are saved.
There is no silly little transition.
The only transition is that most glorious one where we go from being under the wrath of God to becoming the children of God.