Its the word "free". Man does indeed have a will, but it is not free. I can want to be a NBA basketball player for 5 years or more, and my willingness shall never make this come about. Nor can will myself to have a higher IQ. God gave me the body that I have and the skill to play basketball, but gave others better skill to play basketball then I. God gave me my own IQ, and I cannot change that, but must live with what I have. I can make my BB skills as good as I can, but they will never be NBA level. NEVER.
As it turns out God is in control of all things. God has determined to have some people to have sickness. Lazarus's sickness was "not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified by it." In John 9 we read a man was born blind, in order to bring glory to God. This means it too was determined by God.
God determined that lions will kill a deer but will not eat grass. Deer eat grass, and not lions. God made them that way. A lion will never change. NEVER.
It was God that determined where Christ was to be born. A small town, and not a big city.
THEREFORE.......
God is in control in salvation, not only after but before salvation. Man can not "will" to be born again. (John 1) Man is born again just as the wind blows. (John 3) This means we do not know who will be born again next.
I did a 3 part on "born again" 3-4 weeks ago.
http://www.lincolnstandard.com/main.asp?SectionID=26&SubSectionID=301&ArticleID=2399&TM=44587.96
http://www.lincolnstandard.com/main.asp?SectionID=26&SubSectionID=301&ArticleID=2448&TM=44587.96
in the last part I wrote...
Once God opens the eyes of the non-believer, the choice can be made. Before this time man is blind to that choice and is not free to chose. He sees no reason to chose God. So the will of man is not free at all, but bound by sin. God over powers that sin nature and opens the eyes, the person believes and is saved.
In Christ..James