This is another flaw in the attempt to give TULIP a real life application. Your are saying that all children under this unknown age of accountability are Elect, but once they reach a certain age they must then become un-elect. That would defeat TULIP's stance on Election.
What your saying here is an attempt to soften the blow presented by Calvinism. If Calvinism is true, then there must be millions of children who are not Elect from birth, just like the claim towards adults.
Not to derail this thread, but the real issue is Original Sin. Folks simply do not believe it. Almost no one believes that God sends little babies to hell. Why? Because deep down inside people KNOW they have not done anything deserving of eternal punishment.
Rom 9:11 (For the children being not yet born,
neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth; )
So, instead of believing that men are made upright but willingly choose to sin when they are older (Ecc 7:29), folks invent all sorts of unscriptural views that says God shows "special grace" to babies. Why would God do that if babies are truly wicked sinners like the rest of us?
They also claim that God saves babies without faith in Jesus, which completely goes against all scripture.
Babies do not need to repent, babies are not lost.
Mat 18:12 How think ye? if a man have an hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray, doth he not leave the ninety and nine, and goeth into the mountains, and seeketh that which is gone astray?
13 And if so be that he find it, verily I say unto you, he rejoiceth more of that sheep, than of the ninety and nine
which went not astray.
14 Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of
these little ones should perish.
Luk 15:7 I say unto you, that likewise joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth, more than over ninety and nine just persons,
which need no repentance.
Truth is, almost nobody sincerely believes Original Sin, this is why almost nobody believes little babies who die go to hell. Oh, they will give it lip service, because you are considered a heretic if you dare challenge OS, but in reality, almost no one except the most extreme Calvinists and Roman Catholics believe it.
Now back to thread.