Sorry, brother, but I can't quote your post because it is inside a quote.
I believe that God did it all perfectly. God is both just and the justifier of sinners. I believe that the parables point to how God accomplished redemption (sending His Son to people who would kill His Son). God does not punish the Son for the crimes of others (God was not presenting one moral truth to man and another to Himself, He is that standard).
God sent His Son to die for our sins, He lay our iniquities upon His Son, was pleased "to crush" Him, sent His Son as an "offering for sin", and Christ lay down His own life, bore our sins in His flesh, the chastening for us all fell upon Him, and it is by His stripes we are healed as He became a curse for us, became sin for us, and shared in our iniquity.
It does not bother me that you believe God poured out His wrath upon Christ. I once believed the same. But it is not actually in the Bible, so I do not feel obligated to hold that position. I have tested it and found it false. God delivered me, I believe, from that type of thinking through diligently studying His Word. But I am accountable only for my views and my teachings, not yours.
Consider my views, test them against Scripture, take the meat and spit out the bones. We have a a lot of common ground and common beliefs. This is not one of them. You being a teacher I suspect that you do test what you teach against Scripture. I just believe you have made some serious errors in interpretation. You believe the same of me. I am not trying to talk you into my view but encouraging you to once again reexamine your own.