Hello dianetavegia.
How many 5 point Calvinists believe man has free will to choose to accept Jesus Christ as their Savior or refuse that free gift of salvation without being pre elected by God before they were formed?
I don't believe the will can ever be free but is a force with which we accomplish our desires in so far as we are able. It is bound to what we are and as such we will not willing go to God of our own volition because God prevents any such thing occurring as He controls our desires. The only ones that can willingly will to do God's will will have God's will imposed on them by God so they can will to do God's will willingly but we cannot achieve it. We remain incapable of good. Romans 7:14>.
I do by the way see the statement below as a cop out.
"God from eternity, decrees or permits all things that come to pass, and perpetually upholds, directs and governs all creatures and all events; yet so as not in any wise to be the author or approver of sin nor to destroy the free will and responsibility of intelligent creatures."
And I agree with Andre's critique except that it does come down to usurping the throne. It is not a fudge but it is a denial of God's Sovereignty.
If God is Sovereign then all decisions come from Him and if He permits a sovereign action to come from a subject then that subject is sovereign and God is God no longer. My God is Sovereign. That is simple enough Bob? In so far as a man can choose that far he is sovereign.
The statement if believed destroys the question, "Why does God still blame us for who resists His will?" It's a call to show how far Calvinism has drifted in trying to avoid the unpleasant fact that it is God that created all things and all things are because of Him. We are helpless and subjected to outrage by the One that created us, no? Yes man that's what He wants us to know. That's why the question is there.

RO 9:19 One of you will say to me: "Then why does God still blame us? For who resists his will?" 20 But who are you, O man, to talk back to God? "Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, `Why did you make me like this?' " 21 Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use?
This of course makes God the Author of sin.
I can understand how republicans can have little concept of sovereignty being in one person but I think they have no excuse for misunderstanding election.
john.