Yes - one must be born again of water and the spirit which, if I have a correct understanding of Catholic dotrine here, is precisely what they teach.
I must respectfully disagree with your statements here as they are not supported by scripture -- at least if one takes scripture in its totallity.
Your profile says that you are SBC. Are you? No Baptist that I know takes the position you do. Are you sure you are not a Church of Christ come in disguise?
25 Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you.
26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
27 And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them.
What do we have here? We have someone sprinkled with water and through that action, they are made clean from their filthiness, and they receive God’s spirit. This passage from the Old Testament shows us that God, by his own design and not that of men, uses an outward sign to bring about an inward change in his people – a foreshadowing of Baptism in the New Testament. Notice how God in the old covenant was preparing us for what he gives us in the new covenant.
And now, let’s move on to the New Testament to see the correlation.
This is an allegoric passage from the OT. It is addressed to the Jews, not the Christians and has nothing to do with baptism. You are really reaching here.
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
These are the same old passages that both the COC and the RCC use. So which do you belong to. We have explained them many times here on this board, and kind of tire of it every time a newbie comes along. You could search the archives. Let me reiterate, no Baptist takes the position you do.
Nevertheless, in the passage you have highlighted, the word "for" is the Greek word "eis."
The same word is used is used in Mat. 3:11.
Matthew 3:11 I indeed baptize you with water
unto repentance:
The word "unto" is "eis"
Did John baptize because it would bring them repentance?
Did John baptize because they had repented?
The answer is obvious.
A few verses earlier he says:
Matthew 3:8 Bring forth therefore fruits meet for repentance:
--He demanded that they bring for the evidence of their repentance and then he would baptize them, and not until then. The word "eis" could mean: "on the basis of," or "on account of" or "because of."
Acts 2:38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for ("because of the" the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
--IOW: "Because you have already have had your sins forgiven."
That is the meaning of the verse.
Acts 22:16 16And now why tarriest thou? Arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord.
CONTEXT! Context is very important, and if you leave context out of the picture you have nothing.
Paul is giving his testimony to the Jews: Look before when he starts:
Acts 22:7-8 And I fell unto the ground, and heard a voice saying unto me, Saul, Saul, why persecutest thou me? And I answered,
Who art thou, Lord? And he said unto me, I am Jesus of Nazareth, whom thou persecutest.
And again:
Acts 22:10 And I said,
What shall I do, Lord? And the Lord said unto me, Arise, and go into Damascus; and there it shall be told thee of all things which are appointed for thee to do.
In Romans 10:13, Paul himself taught: "Whosoever shall call upon the name shall be saved. Paul could not have called upon Christ as Lord if he were not saved. This is where the conversion of Paul took place, up here in verses 8-10, where he calls Jesus "Lord." That is where he called upon Christ as "Lord."
Again if you study the grammar of Acts 22:16 in the Greek you will find it teaching something else than you proclaim it is.
Scripture plainly tells us that Baptism washes away sin; and through Baptism, we receive the Holy Spirit.
Not once does it ever say that; only in your imagination.
13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body [the body of Christ], whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit.
The "body of Christ" here is a specific body, the church at Corinth. Its members are specific to the body that he was painting. Not everyone could be its pastors, deacons, and have the same position of service.
--1 Corinthians 12:8 For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit;
1 Corinthians 12:15 If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body?
--This is only true in a local church. There are only two eyes. Someone else had to be the feet. Each one in the local body had to exercise their own spiritual gift so that the body, the local church in Corinth, would function in unity.
1 Corinthians 12:26 And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it.
--This is only true in a local church where we all know one another. It is impossible for one believe to know the sufferings of other believers half way around the world. But we all suffer together when one of our own members suffer. This is the picture of a local church.
Thus in verse 13
1 Corinthians 12:13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit.
the word "spirit," need not be capitalized, and may very well be the spirit of unity, as it is speaking of the unity of Jews and Gentiles, the bond and free--we are all one in Christ.