I was raised to sit quietly and take in the words of the pastor ( what I could comprehend) then there came a time, usually at dinner, when we had frank discussions about the sermon and any other teaching... questions were encouraged. The parents involvement was critical to the learning process. And this was a Roman Catholic educational tradition! Trust me, I know RC doctrines, can still recite prayers, songs, scriptures supporting doctrine etc. With parents doing teaching and pastors and elders reinforcing and clarifying, I’ve seen a higher level of religious education than an hour a week SS class.