--Why are people unsaved?
They love darkness better than light.
--Why do they love darkness better than light?
Because they choose to.
--Why do they choose to love darkness better than light?
______________________________?
What say ye?
I believe I know the answer, but I am not setting you up to tear you down, if you disagree with me. :saint:
Now, let's go back to the OP....
--Does God open sinners' heart or do they choose to allow Him to?
--Does God open sinners' blinded eyes or do they choose to allow Him to?
--Does God open sinners' ears or do they choose to allow Him to?
That is why regeneration prior to conversion is essential, imo. We had no choice when God started the work in opening our eyes to see our truly sinful state, our ears to hear what the word of God was truly saying to us, and our hearts to receive the engrafted word, which is able to save our souls.
James 1:21 wherefore having put aside all filthiness and superabundance of evil, in meekness be receiving the engrafted word, that is able to save your souls;
Phpps 2:13 for God it is who is working in you both to will and to work for His good pleasure.
John 6:29Jesus answered and said to them,
`This is the work of God, that ye may believe in him whom He did send.'