And I don't doubt for a second that Aaron believes his arguement . And further he believes that abstinence is the MO that is the correct way to address a weaker brother or sister and to some degree it is ..... however it is not the way to address it long term...ie its not cureitive.
One, even if you never take a drink in your life, the alcoholic will drink & probably avoid you if you don't drink.
Two, the alcoholic will somewhere in their life have to face the fact they have a tiger by the tail & that they are in fact alcoholics.
Three, seek help... you cant do it on your own. Yes you can not drink but you will just be a dry drunk...one that constantly wants to drink but is scared to. Your life requires balance & as a dry drunk, you aren't in balance. GOD, Family, Career, Health must be all in alignment--because that will give you prospective .
I am only posting this because ive lived with alcoholics all my 56 years ....I have developed coping mechanisms & helped others with theirs. If anyone wants to talk, please feel free to PM me.
God bless all
One, even if you never take a drink in your life, the alcoholic will drink & probably avoid you if you don't drink.
Two, the alcoholic will somewhere in their life have to face the fact they have a tiger by the tail & that they are in fact alcoholics.
Three, seek help... you cant do it on your own. Yes you can not drink but you will just be a dry drunk...one that constantly wants to drink but is scared to. Your life requires balance & as a dry drunk, you aren't in balance. GOD, Family, Career, Health must be all in alignment--because that will give you prospective .
I am only posting this because ive lived with alcoholics all my 56 years ....I have developed coping mechanisms & helped others with theirs. If anyone wants to talk, please feel free to PM me.
God bless all