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Refuse To Be Baptized?

John of Japan

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This is not correct. Peter's command in Acts 2:38 is not the only command to be baptized. While Peter was preaching to Cornelius and all those who were gathered with him, God interrupted Peter's message by giving the Spirit to all the unbelievers who were there because they had repented and believed:

Acts 10:44 While Peter yet spake these words, the Holy Ghost fell on all them which heard the word. 45 And they of the circumcision which believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because that on the Gentiles also was poured out the gift of the Holy Ghost. 46 For they heard them speak with tongues, and magnify God.

Because God had supernaturally attested to their genuine salvation, Peter then commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord:
Acts 10:46c Then answered Peter, 47 Can any man forbid water, that these should not be baptized, which have received the Holy Ghost as well as we? 48 And he commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord. Then prayed they him to tarry certain days.
Good point. I missed that passage.
Baptism is commanded of all believers. A steadfast refusal to be baptized by someone who is physically capable of being baptized calls that person's salvation into serious question. At best, such a person who persistently refuses to be baptized is a very disobedient believer.
How do you get from Peter telling people in the NT that they must be baptized, to saying that applies to all who believe, that they must decide to be baptized? There are many cases in the Bible where a man of God commands an individual or a group of people to do something (or not to), yet that command is not applicable to all believers. For example, Jesus told a young Jewish man to sell all he had (Matt. 19:21). Is that applicable to all? In Matthew 10, Jesus gave specific commands to the apostles: don't take money, or a change of clothing, etc., and do not rent a place to live. Should I have followed those directions when I took my family to serve God in Japan?

And do you agree with my point that the Great Commission in Matthew 28 commands the soul winner to disciple the new believer to baptism? This actually works just fine, unless you are one who does not believe in discipling a new believer. (There are people like that; I'm not saying you are one.)
 

John of Japan

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Us Baptists understand that faith is all that is necessary to be saved. We also understand that if faith does not compel an individual to be obedient to the commands of Christ, then we might question whether or not that person is truly saved.

So my question is this - Do you believe that a professing Christian who refuses to be baptized as commanded by Christ can truly be saved?

I understand that there are some who may be physically unable due to a medical condition. I’m talking about a person who is lazy about it and indicating that it is an inconvenience for them and giving other shallow excuses. They have no desire to be water baptized as a way of publicly declaring their faith in Christ.
In general you have a good point here. If someone refuses to be baptized because of laziness or giving other shallow excuses, the soul winner must do further work to determine if they are truly saved.

Having said that, I believe there are reasons why someone might not want to be baptized right away. For example, in Japan and other Buddhist countries, the new believer will often be kicked out of the family home if they publicly confess Christ through baptism. I know of several cases where this happened. So fear might be a factor in waiting to be baptized, and the new believer must be carefully and compassionately discipled until he or she is willing to be baptized. In a Muslim culture, the Quran commands that an "apostate," someone who becomes a Christian, must be killed. So in a Muslim culture it may be even tougher to get a new believer to be baptized! Fear is a powerful negative motivator.
 
Baptism is a public declaration [outward expression] that we believe [an inward reality] in Jesus Christ as our Lord and savior. The Scriptures tell us that we have eternal life the moment we believe Joh_5:24, and belief always comes before being baptized. Baptism does not save us any more than walking into a garage makes us a car. We are saved when we believe.

So that being the truth why does it matter how you are baptized. Now as a baptist I think it should be dunked all the way under but since it is just your public statement then it is what's in your heart that matters not how wet you get.
Also, the church is run by a woman...

Also, why do I need to be baptized to do communion and I heard they use wine?

Also, I don't want to be baptized in a false church. Still seeing if they are Lordship or not.
 

Silverhair

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Also, the church is run by a woman...

Also, why do I need to be baptized to do communion and I heard they use wine?

Also, I don't want to be baptized in a false church. Still seeing if they are Lordship or not.

I think you missed what I was saying. All your arguments are from a human perspective.

It is a matter of what is in your heart that matters. The question is are you willing to make that public confession of faith in Christ Jesus. It is not by whom or how but if.

You do know that the first miracle that Christ performed was to turn water into wine?
 

Aaron

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You seem disappointed with my answer.

What do you think it means @Aaron?
Just attempting to tease out a deeper understanding if you have one.

Church membership means that I am a member of Christ in good standing with the other members of His body, and baptism is the rite given by God by which we formally enter into union or covenant with Him and His people. Baptism doesn't save, but we can't one as a member who won't humble himself to submit to it.
 
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Silverhair

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Just attempting to tease out a deeper understanding if you have one.

Church membership means that I am a member of Christ in good standing with the other members of His body, and baptism is the rite given by God by which we formally enter into union or covenant with Him and His people. Baptism doesn't save, but one can't be considered a Christian who won't humble himself to submit to it.

So your saying that being a member of a JW or Mormon church means you are "a member of Christ in good standing with the other members of His body"?

So now you are putting works {baptism} as a qualification for being a Christian. So salvation in your religion is actually works based.
 

Aaron

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So your saying that being a member of a JW or Mormon church means you are "a member of Christ in good standing with the other members of His body"?

So now you are putting works {baptism} as a qualification for being a Christian. So salvation in your religion is actually works based.
Heck of a leap there, brother, :Roflmao. You can jump, and that's no joke.

In the church, the real church, everything must be done decently and in order. Baptism and The Lord's Supper are its two ordinances, and Christ requires that we observe them and maintain their significance.
 

Aaron

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It is an argument upon which the written word of God is explicitly silent.
This doesn't look silent to me.

Know ye not, that so many of us as were baptized into Jesus Christ were baptized into his death? Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. - Romans 6:3-4 KJV
 

Ben1445

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Yes …I believe that much of this is maturity in the faith and I fervently believe in a Temporial Salvation which considered the stage of spiritual growth & the level of maturity. You no doubt side with Lordship Salvation.

Aaron, that is a hard & fast commentary that I disagree with. Perhaps you cannot consider it,but what of Christ? Does he think as you do? Can you still sin and be a professing Christian?
Why else are Christians preached to in Romans (6 especially) to not live in sin that they are dead to?
 

Ben1445

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What church? Jesus also says you should wash the feet of the bretheren….do you wash their feet. My church does.
I’m not telling you to stop washing feet, but if you don’t serve the people whose feet you are washing you missed the point. I’m not saying that you missed the point unless the shoe fits. I personally don’t consider foot washing an ordinance. I do consider important to take care of the less pleasant needs of the brethren.
 

Ben1445

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Also, the church is run by a woman...

Also, why do I need to be baptized to do communion and I heard they use wine?

Also, I don't want to be baptized in a false church. Still seeing if they are Lordship or not.
The Ethiopian was not in a church and Phillip didn’t refuse to baptize him if he wouldn’t join his church.
 

37818

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This doesn't look silent to me.
I concur it to be a valid implication. That believers who were instructed to do the observance would have been baptized believers. My other argument would still be true.

Neither observances are matters in order to be saved.
 
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