Let me clear something up about myself and an event that has shaped my adult life.DHK said:When the major theme of the NT is love, can we really say that there is ever a time to hate--a time hateful enough to kill one another?
One day at school, between classes, I was walking the aisle to my next class. A class mate of mine slapped me in the chest knocking the books and papers I was caring onto the grass then he proceeded to kick and scatter them. As I scrambled to regather them he, with his fellows, walked away laughing. I was humiliated but I prayed for him. I was but 14 years of age and did not like what had been done to me. My next prayer was for God to kill me because I did not like myself. I never prayed for his harm but for his heart.
Several days past and I had to go to the boys room. He was there at the door with his gang and they followed me in. Again the books were scattered but this time he put me in a choke hold and proceeded to try to put my head in a urinal. He did not succeed. I did not kick, I did not call out, I did not let fists fly. I simply braced myself and said "May God forgive you Kenny". He could not, try though he did, get so much as a hair wet. I realized that I was actually stronger than he was. He gave up and with a confused look walked out.
Two months latter he fell out of a deer stand and blew off his right leg at the knee. He would have died of blood loss if a local Doctor that was hunting near by had not have heard and seen what had happened. He rush to his aid and got him to the hospital. I visited him there and talked with him.
When he returned to school he never bothered me again.
Years later I had just started working for Coca Cola and was between stores and looked over at a road side prison work detail and I could not believe mine eyes there was Kenny working a sling blade.
I do not regret the way I responded to this bully and God truly defended me. I am a 50 year old man now and I have had to physically defend my self on many occasions and on others I have been passive. Upon each stance whether passive or physical God has gotten me through each situation.
May His Name be praised!