Charles,
In a word, No.
But I think what causes the confusion is the situation. But we must consider the texts and the situation. In other words, when the Bible teaches that we are to honor our parents, it means in Christ. Not so much naturally. Jesus taught that if we follow Him, we must hate our parents.
To keep the scripture in harmony, we must evaluate all aspects. It may not always be a cut or dry answer. I feel this causes the confusion.
If my parents are drug dealers and they want me to go in the family business, I do not feel the Bible teaches I am to obey them in this instance. When Jesus said we must hate our parents, He was saying we must love God more.
Again, I think I understand what you are saying and can support it if thats what you are saying. But we must also consider the other side as well.
If an impure thought comes in a Christians mind, about a woman, according to Christ, it is adultry. If you wish you had a home or a car or a job that someone else has, Christ says that you covet.
Are you saying you have had no impure thoughts since being born again?
I am not trying to be smart here, I am trying to learn what you are truley saying. I will not be judgemental, but it sounds as if this is what you are saying. Please explain.