John, the apostle Paul obviously had made the commitment to surrender his life to Christ: “Whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ. . . . I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish” (Philippians 3:7-8). Even though Paul had made that commitment, he had not yet experienced complete sanctification: “Not that I have already obtained it, or have already become perfect, but I press on in order that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:12). God initiated the process and gave Paul the ability to surrender, but Paul was involved in making the commitment to surrender.
By holding up surrender as an ideal but not a requirement, you seem to be saying that a person can receive Jesus as Savior but not as Lord. Jesus will not be our Savior without being our Lord. We must be willing to surrender to His sovereignty, His Lordship. That is the essence of saving faith. We must be willing to commit ourselves to follow Him.
An example of the necessary choice to commit oneself is found in 1 Kings 18:21:
“And Elijah came near to all the people and said, ‘How long will you hesitate between two opinions? If the LORD is God, follow Him; but if Baal, follow him.’ But the people did not answer him a word.”
The group mentioned in 1 Kings 18:21 was hesitating between two opinions. They had not committed themselves to either God or Baal. A lecturer in Hebrew and Greek studies at the University of Edinburgh, A. Graeme Auld, commented on the passage:
Elijah turns his people’s neutrality or indifference between Yahweh and Baal to his own advantage. They become umpire or jury.
(Auld, “I & II Kings,” The Daily Study Bible [Old Testament], page 120)
The group was in a neutral transitional phase (equipoise). Elijah, King Ahab, and the prophets of Baal were already committed one way or the other and thus were not in equipoise.
Elijah told the group to make a decision to follow either God or Baal. God’s power was demonstrated to the uncommitted group, and they formed a bias toward God. In verse 39 they fell on their faces and said, “The LORD, He is God.” Auld discussed the significance of this profession of faith:
When Yahweh’s power is demonstrated, the people acclaim him not simply as being worthy of being called “a god”. The Hebrew of verse 39 rendered rather more literally than in RSV has them say: “Yahweh, he is the god”. They recognize him now as “the [sole] god”—or simply, as RSV has it, as “God” with a capital “G”.
(Auld, page 120)
Immediately after they made their public profession of faith, they were asked to seize the prophets of Baal (verse 40). This first act of obedience was performed in front of King Ahab and proved that their faith was genuine. They had truly become followers (disciples) of God.
The Bible says that non-Christians can reject salvation when God offers it to them:
“And as He was setting out on a journey, a man ran up to Him and knelt before Him, and began asking Him, ‘Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?’ ” (Mark 10:17)
“And looking at him, Jesus felt a love for him, and said to him, ‘One thing you lack: go and sell all you possess, and give to the poor, and you shall have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.’ But at these words his face fell, and he went away grieved, for he was one who owned much property. And Jesus, looking around, said to His disciples, ‘How hard it will be for those who are wealthy to enter the kingdom of God!’ ” (Mark 10:21-23)
Jesus loved this man with the highest form of love (agapao in Greek), and the man obviously had the opportunity to receive eternal life, but he rejected the offer of salvation. The young man was unwilling to surrender every part of his life to Jesus. Jesus said, “No one of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions” (Luke 14:33). Non-Christians cannot earn their salvation by good works, but they must be willing to let Jesus be Lord of every area of their lives, including their possessions, to receive the gift of eternal life. Donald A. Carson, professor of New Testament at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, discussed the young man’s unwillingness to commit himself to Jesus:
What the word “perfection” suggests here is what it commonly means in the OT: undivided loyalty and full-hearted obedience. This young man could not face that. He was willing to discipline himself to observe all the outward stipulations and even perform supererogatory works; but because of his wealth, he had a divided heart. His money was competing with God; and what Jesus everywhere demands as a condition of eternal life is absolute, radical discipleship. This entails the surrender of self.
(Carson, “Matthew,” The Expositor’s Bible Commentary, vol. 8, page 424)