Allan said:
The whole faith cometh by hearing.. was more toward follow through with your explaination and scritpture otherwise how can my faith or anyone elses be challenged and grow with substance for me to chew on, and the same is vise versa.
OK, sorry I missed your meaning. I usually try to be brief because I don't have a lot of time.
We differ in the two basic points for here. The call being one effectual call to those who WILL believe.
When we talk about the effectual call we are speaking of the call producing a certain result (belief). Romans 8:30 says "those whom he called he also justified" - no exceptions. If there is only one call which can be believed or rejected then not all who are called are also justified. For another example see Acts 2:38-39 which says "And Peter said to them, 'Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to himself.'" The gospel invitation is for everyone, but this call is only for those who will believe.
And that brings up my second point but not so much in my OP, of If God elects then why scriptual mandate that to be saved you must believe. Could it possible be because this is the requirement God decreed as a means for salvation. Now the question is Why, if He determines who He will MAKE believe and who He will leave in darkness.
First, He doesn't "MAKE" anyone believe in the sense of "force", so you could probably say that a different way. Maybe you didn't mean "force", I don't know.
Second, He did it this way so that no one could boast (Eph. 2:9). Salvation is not primarily about getting us out of Hell. That is a most fortunate result of salvation, but salvation is primarily about declaring the glory of God. Rom. 3:26 says "It was to show his righteousness at the present time, so that he might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus." The spotlight must be on Him and what salvation teaches us about Him. Nothing is worth more than this knowledge of Him, not even rescue from Hell.
You ought to spend some time in John 17 looking at Jesus' prayer on the eve of His death. He starts this way: "Father, the hour has come; glorify your Son that the Son may glorify you, since you have given him authority over all flesh, to give eternal life to all whom you have given him. And this is eternal life, that they know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent." How different is that than the way we normally think about salvation? How offensive would it be (assuming you are the preacher) if you stood up next Sunday in church and prayed something like "Father, glorify me in this sermon that I am about to preach"? If you heard someone pray like that what would you think?
Then notice who it is to whom He gives eternal life, and notice what that eternal life is. Then read on and you'll come across sentences like "Father, I desire that they also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory that you have given me because you loved me before the foundation of the world." Why does He want to save us? Not ultimately so that we won't burn, but ultimately so that He can show us His glory. Then notice running through the whole prayer a note of exclusivity - He is not praying for the world, but only for those who have been given to Him and those who will believe later, those whom the world hates. To me this is some of the strongest evidence for effectual calling (and limited atonement) in the whole Bible.
So chew on that for a while and let me know what you think.