"With the wicked" I do not deny what you are saying. Praytell, then who does He have indignation for?
Indignation: anger or annoyance provoked by what is perceived as unfair treatment.
So God was only annoyed by Satan's rebellion? He was only annoyed by Satan's affront on His sovereignity and omnipotence?
Annoyed: slightly angry; irritated.
Irritated: showing or feeling slight anger; annoyed.
Either God was angry, annoyed(slightly angry{which is still angry}), or irritated(slightly angry{which is still angry}), at Satan and his minions.
You have no biblical support for you saying God does not get angry.
Psa 7:10 My shield is with God, who saves the upright in heart.
Psa 7:11 God is a righteous judge, and a God who feels indignation every day.
Psa 7:12 If a man does not repent, God will whet his sword; he has bent and readied his bow;
Psa 7:13 he has prepared for him his deadly weapons, making his arrows fiery shafts.
Psa 7:14 Behold, the wicked man conceives evil and is pregnant with mischief and gives birth to lies.
Psa 7:15 He makes a pit, digging it out, and falls into the hole that he has made.
Psa 7:16 His mischief returns upon his own head, and on his own skull his violence descends.
Psa 7:17 I will give to the LORD the thanks due to his righteousness, and I will sing praise to the name of the LORD, the Most High.
His indignation is not against the person, but rather against the evil. Sometimes, in the eyes of the OT prophet, the two were hard to separate. But revelation is progressive. In the NT Christ clearly differentiated between the two.
Love your enemies. Do good to them that hate you.
To use OT theology to bolster NT teaching is wrong. Christ clearly taught against this belief. God is angry with the wickedness of the sinner, not the sinner himself, who he continues to woo and plead to come to Himself. His love knows no bounds.
The Calvinist ties up the love of Christ; puts limits on it; says that it is finite, etc. This is an unbiblical and antibiblical theology. The finite man cannot comprehend the infinite love of the Lord Jesus Christ and that love that he bestowed on ALL mankind.