You just nailed it. The OP has given many variants of a saved by works theology and has been rebuffed in every thread. Yet, the OP persists in demanding he is the only one who isn't duped. For the OP, it seems to be the OP against the world. However, if the OP is correct, God is not willing that anyone perish, therefore all of us will not perish, whether we agree with the OP or not. [emoji2958][emoji848][emoji57]So rather than explain your position you engage in ad hominem. That means you either have no argument or you just want to argue for the sake of arguing.
The OP has a massive dilemma in which he cannot extract himself. Therefore, he speaks with bluster as his only means of argument.
Your engagement with the OP has been on point. It has addressed the passage and provided a reasoned understanding to readers. Thank you. We continue to hope that the OP will have eyes to see. I once struggled with this issue as the OP does. Reading God's word in combination with God graciously opening my eyes lead me to understand his unmerited favor to the elect.