You realize that Paul destroys your assertion in Romans 9. Why make a comment that the Bible destroys?
Second, you misunderstand the term "God is not a respecter of men." This means God is not impressed with any human being bases upon their self-righteousness. This means that God's choice is a mystery to us. Even the angels are perplexed by God's mercy to any human. Therefore, your complaints hold no merit.
Austin you wrote:
>>Second, you misunderstand the term "God is not a respecter of men." This means God is not impressed with any human being bases upon their self-righteousness. This means that God's choice is a mystery to us.<<
I do have to question your assertion that God’s choice is a mystery, that is just the Calvinist way of avoiding the question. God has been quite clear as to the requirements for salvation, it is Faith in His son. Joh 3:16-18 Paul even shows us the steps that bring that about Rom 10:14-15. And if you were not sure about why someone would be open to the gospel message well the Holy Spirit is the answer Jon 16:8-9.
So you see God has made in abundantly clear in scripture both the way and the means of salvation.
Rom 3:21 But now the
righteousness of God apart from the law is revealed, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets,
Rom 3:22 even the righteousness of God,
through faith in Jesus Christ,
to all and on all
who believe. For there is no difference;
Rom 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Rom 3:24
being justified freely
by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus,
Rom 3:25 whom
God set forth as a propitiation by His blood,
through faith, to demonstrate His righteousness, because in His forbearance God had passed over the sins that were previously committed,
Rom 3:26 to demonstrate at the present time His righteousness, that He might be just and the justifier
of the one who has faith in Jesus.
So here we see Justification explained. What can we know by these verses?
1] It is apart form the Law
2] It is through faith in Christ Jesus
3] It is for all men
4] It is by the grace of God
5] It was accomplished at great cost to God
It has often been said “Salvation is free, but it is not cheap” The cost to God for our salvation can be summed up in three words: propitiation, redemption, and blood. My salvation cost me nothing, but it cost God the life of His son, Christ Jesus.
God has provided the way and the means we just have to accept it.