Here are some questions for you.
If you are witnessing to Joe, trying to lead him to Christ, and it just so happens that God has chosen to regenerate Joe at this exact time,
Would he be regenerated if you asked him to pray the sinner's prayer?
Would he be regenerated if you told him nursery rhymes?
Would he be regenerated if you told him how to make your favorite chili?
Now, what if God has decided to pass Joe by and let him burn in hell;
Would Joe be converted if you preached the Ten Commandments to him?
If you are honest (remember those commandments you preach), you would have to admit as a Calvinist that it doesn't matter what you preach, if God has decided to regenerate Joe today, then he will be regenerated no matter what you preach to him. Likewise, if God has decided to pass by Joe, then no matter what you preach, even the Ten Commandments, Joe is not going to be saved. Even if you get him to say a sinner's prayer, he is going to be a false convert.
In other words, Paul Washer and John MacArthur have sold you a pile of cow manure. What you preach has nothing to do with whether a man is regenerated or not if Calvinism is true.
Now, you could have sent that money to these people that you owe thousands to, but you wasted it buying books that are telling you complete lies, because you are not smart enough to figure this out.
Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
And I don't hate Calvinists, I hate Calvinism. You cannot seem to tell the difference. But I do believe you have to be rather dull to be a Calvinist.
You think too much man. Too much thinking and not enough action.