You haven't explained how John 3:3 disannuls the fact that the kingdom has a physical aspect as well as a spiritual one. You're just repeating the accusation.
The problem of the Pharisees was not that they expected a physical kingdom, it was that they rejected and/or ignored the spiritual aspect of the kingdom [
righteousness (Ro.14:17),
repentance (Mt.3:2)] that came with it.
Upon their rejection, they lost the prospect of the physical kingdom - for
now (John 18:36) [
that's not Christ teaching against it, that's Christ saying: "the physical kingdom has gone into mystery form because of your unbelief"] and all that was left was the spiritual aspect, which
spiritual aspect was given to the church instead. That
partial truth, that the kingdom has a spiritual aspect, is seen of you as the
whole truth. The fact that there is a
present spiritual aspect to the kingdom does not disannul the
future physical aspect.
You see, you mock the Pharisees but you're doing the same thing:
- In their Jewish bias they could only see the physical aspect of the kingdom and rejected the spiritual aspect.
- In your Gentile bias you can only see the spiritual aspect of the kingdom and reject the physical one.
- They overlooked the 1st coming
- You overlook the 2nd coming
Rom 11:32 For God hath concluded them all in unbelief, that he might have mercy upon all.
Rom 11:33 O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out!