Where does the bible teach that Christ was the ransom for all? Over and over, the Scriptures speak of particular or definite people who are saved. It never says that Christ paid the ransom for everybody without exception. Take that well-known verse John 3:16:
“"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” (Joh 3:16 NKJV)
It doesn't say, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that everybody should not perish but have everlasting life."
Have you looked at these verses
Joh 3:17 "For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but
that the world might be saved through Him.
Heb 2:9 But we do see Him who was made for a little while lower than the angels,
namely, Jesus, because of the suffering of death crowned with glory and honor, so that by the grace of God
He might taste death for everyone.
1Jn 2:2 and
He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only,
but also for those of the whole world.
1Ti 2:5 For there is one God,
and one mediator also between God and men,
the man Christ Jesus,
1Ti 2:6
who gave Himself as a ransom for all, the testimony
given at the proper time.
Rom 5:6 For while we were still helpless, at the right time
Christ died for the ungodly.
Rom 5:8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that
while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Rom 3:23
for all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God,
Unless you think that there are some that were not included in the “whole world” were not “ungodly” or “sinners” or perhaps did not “fall short of the glory of God” then “all have sinned” and Christ was “
a ransom for all” so that “
He might taste death for everyone”
Christ died to cover the sins of mankind and yet not all are saved. Why you ask well the bible tells you in the verse you quoted
Joh 3:16 "For
God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son,
that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
The world that God loved is the same world that He came to be the propitiation/ransom for. You do not seem to want to accept this but it is biblical.
To lessen the death of Christ to only cover that sins of the calvinist elect is to insult God and the sacrifice that Christ made.
Yes, it's limited to those who believe. But why do some believe and some not? Again, the bible is clear on this matter, it is because of God's grace, His undeserved favour. It isn't some kind of "reward" for believing. As for twisting Scripture, you mention Romans 6:10, which says:
“For the death that He died, He died to sin once for all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God.” (Ro 6:10 NKJV)
The words "once for all" translate one Greek word ἐφάπαξ ephapax which I am told means "once", "all at once" or "once for all". That last is simply an emphatic way of saying "once." Indeed, some English translations translate it simply as "once," such as this in the Geneva Bible{
10 For in that he died, he died once to sin but in that he liveth, he liveth to God.
It doesn't mean that He died for everybody.
Salvation is limited to those that believe, just as we are told in scripture. You asked why do some believe and others not? And yes the bible is clear:
Rom 1:16 “For I am not ashamed of
the gospel, for it is
the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes...”
Eph 1:13 In Him, you also,
after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—
having also believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise,
Rom 10:9 that
if you confess with your mouth Jesus
as Lord,
and believe in your heart that
God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved;
Rom 10:13 for "
WHOEVER WILL CALL ON THE NAME OF THE LORD WILL BE SAVED."
Do you see a pattern here, the person has to hear and believe. God is gracious in that He has provide various means to draw us to Him whether this is creation, conviction of sin or even the gospel message.
You make contradictory statements when you quote
Rom 6:10 For the death that He died,
He died to sin once for all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God.
And then say “It doesn't mean that He died for everybody.”
It seems you are holding to a philosophical position rather than trust what scripture says.
"Elect" is another word for "chosen", and both are used in the bible of those whom God saves.
“just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love,” (Eph 1:4 NKJV)
So your saying that someone is saved before the foundation of the world. How does that happen? Since we are told in scripture that we are only saved by God when we have heard the gospel and believed it.
Again it is philosophy not scripture that you are trusting.
It's a pity you choose to accuse people who disagree with you on this matter of "denying Scripture." Rather, we understand Scripture differently.
What you say is understanding scripture differently sounds a lot like what you hear from the Mormons and JW’s. BTW I am not calling calvinism a cult.
To quote a calvinist "A man is not saved because he believes in Christ, he believes in Christ because he is saved." Loraine Boettner
1Co 1:21 For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not
come to know God,
God was well-pleased through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe.
That is not understanding scripture differently that is denying scripture.