LOL, I am sure you don't recognize the circular oxymoronic statement you just made. Let me lay it out for you so you hopefully see it.Jesus said whever believes is not condemned, whoever does not believe is condemned already.
Your right, we do not get to chose who God saves. But he does ge to chose who he saved, And he chose to save those who believe.
1) We don't get to choose.
2) God gets to choose.
3) We don't choose to believe and God chose the one who chose to believe.
LOL, I can't make it up. You canceled out your own assertion.