That is what it sounds like. And it's what I figured it meant too. But everything Iconoclast has posted above is true. What helped me the most was reading actual sermons by reformed pastors. It isn't what you think.
Dave I have noticed that many times you refer to reformed writers that have lead you to the reformed view. Have you ever wondered why? Have you ever taken the time to just read the bible without the Calvinist view placed over the text?
What I always find surprising is that Calvinists can not give a reasonable answer as to how or why people were saved before Augustine/Calvin discover what the bible was really saying about salvation.
From what Calvinists keep saying we did not need the Apostles, or preachers or for that matter even the bible. God was just going to drop faith into the ones He had chosen to save and the rest, well they would just never have known about being saved.
Actually when you think about it that would have been a much better way for God to do it. No need of Christ Jesus to suffer and die, no religious wars. Think about it, everyone would have just lived their lives the way God determined it to be and then when they died some would go to heaven and the rest would go to hell. No fuss no mess.
But, and here is where the fly is in the ointment so to speak. That is not what we find in the bible is it. Christ Jesus came to save sinners, God desires that all be saved, we have the gospel message, we have to believe that message before we are saved. God could have done it the way that Calvinism presents it but instead He chose to do it the way the bible presents it.
Dave reformed writers/preachers will teach according to what they believe to be true, so when you read them, then of course, they will show you what you are looking for. Why would you expect anything else.