My church does not require
"women to keep their mouths shut from the time they enter the church until they leave" as the Bible does not require this.
I Corinthians is all about a church that is in a ridiculous hot mess. It would be laughable if not so sad. But God, through Paul does not condemn this church to hell and shut it down but
instructs it and moves it to change. Even in its pathetic state, there is great hope for this body of Christ BECAUSE of Christ.
In 1 Corinthains 14, there are
three groups of people instructed to "keep silent" in a worship service.
- Those speaking in tongues when another person begins to speak in tongues. Only 2 or 3 are given permission to speak in tongues and once the next begins to speak, the first is to "keep silent". To ME, God via the Holy Spirit prompts the tongues, this will keep order in the service and prevent people just jumping up willy-nilly. The Holy Spirit will not prompt many people at once as that is not order. That is just my opinion.
- Those prophesying. Again, only 2 or 3 are allowed to prophecy in a worship service and once the second one begins to speak, the first is to "keep silent". The same principle above applies.
- Wives asking questions out loud is forbidden. They are told to ask husbands questions at home. Women in services where the scriptures are read and discussed was a new thing to women. Women were not in the synagogues where scriptures were read and discussed.
Paul already said in chapter 11 that women could pray and prophecy in church as long as they wore a head covering [if married to show they have a headship].
My church does not have female pastors, but we have had, under the direction of my ultra-conservative pastor, women to make announcements about missions, to give testimony from the pulpit, serve on every committee we have, and more. Our women sing in the choir and sing solos. We just to not have female pastors.