No she is in open sin and needs to be
1Co 5:5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
You know, I watched that episode of Larry King (yeah, I know you're wondering how someone with no TV watches Larry King) and I really just felt embarrassed for her pastor.
All of us have gotten caught asleep at the switch, approving somebody for church membership who shouldn't have been, approving a baptismal candidate who shouldn't have been baptised, failing to discipline somebody who should have been disciplined, etc, so I couldn't really point a finger at him for that.
But I really would have been impressed with him if he had said, "I'm the pastor and so the buck stops with me. When Jennifer asked to be made a part of our church, we sincerely believed that she showed all of the signs of true, Biblical repentance and faith in Christ and His atonement on the cross on her behalf and met the Biblical criteria for church membership. Based on that, we chose to make her a member of our church. In the same way, we believed that she met all of the criteria of a baptismal candidate and so chose to baptise her.
However, I now understand that we were disobedient to God's word and sinned against Jennifer when we failed to exercise Biblical discipline, even though we were aware of he ongoing and unrepentant sin.
We have repented before God, both as a congregation and as the leadership of _______ Church. We, the leadership, have apologized to the church body. And now, on behalf of the church, I would like to apologize to Jennifer and ask for her forgiveness for failing to show her the love and care for her and her spiritual well being by failing to try to restore her to a right relationship with God through discipline and a call for her to repent for her sin."