Hanna said:
The reason is because the Bible tells me that if I raise a child in the way he should go he will not depart from it. The Bible also tells me that God loves my child even more than I do. The Bible tells me that the fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. And because my child will have the same opportunity I did to choose life or death. There is hope. For the Calvinist, there is no hope. Its all a crap shoot. That is horrifying to me
You quoted a proverb and not a promise.
"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." (Proverbs 22:6)
Many Mothers and Fathers do train their child in the right way and yet the child ends up in the world. Being a good mother and father does not mean you will have a born again child. My girls are all grown now. All three are serving the Lord full time. But I cannot claim it was me that caused this. I made many mistakes as a dad. There were greater dads them I, that have kids in jail.
If you hope is in your training, you place your hope in the wrong thing. Your hope should always be in God. When young mothers and fathers ask me about child rearing, I tell them about 3 books they need to buy. I they them to read the books and then place them on the shelf. One cannot raise a child with a book. One can only raise a child on their knees. Pray each day for each child and leave it in the hands of God.
I am a Calvinist and I would have to disagree about no hope. My hope is in God that is in full control of the universe. You have said a lot about Gods love. God is a God of love. God is more then just loving, He is the very essence of love itself. With no God, we have no love. But think a bit with me please. If God is not in control of all things, what good is Gods love? If we cannot count on Gods love when we need it most, for God has
not the power or the
control to bring His love to us, then His love does us no good. I have full hope in God for He is King of His Kingdom, in full control of ALL that He made, and made all things with mere words from His mouth. I can COUNT on God and have this hope because He is in control.
I have hope for salvation is in Gods hands. If I sin, I do not loss my salvation. If salvation was of me, I would have no hope at all. God will not leave me as a believe, and will not let me leave. My hope is in a God in full control of my salvation, knowing what He has started in me, He will someday make perfect.
I have hope for God cares for his sheep. Who God loves He also chasens. God does not chasen those not in the fold. God chasens me to bring me back. He test me to make me strong. If I need my leg broke, I can count on God to break it. This gives me great hope for God cares about me.
I have much hope for God listens to my prayers. The close fellowship found in prayer when God draws me more toward His holy will and away from my will. My will sins. Gods will is pure. I ask God to remove my will and let me alone live for Him. I have hope for God does guild me in life down the path of his will. God does remove my will, as I ask him. I have hope in prayer for I can ask God to change the heart of a sinner and He will. God has waited till I prayed to change the man, for God wanted to build my faith in God.
With no God, I have no hope. With God, there is all hope.
In Christ...James