I find just the same.
I have previously written about 'Common Grace' whereby God makes His sun rise on the evil and the good, sends rain on the just and unjust, is kind to the unthankful and evil, and bbears with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction. If such people do not respond in repentance and faith, they will ndeed be lost. But none of this is 'Saving Grace' whereby the Lord Jesus picks Zacchaeus out of a crowd or the opening of Lydia's heart to respond to the things spoken to her by Paul. Such people as these are our Lord's sheep. His Father has given them to Him to redeem, He has laid down His life for them, they hear His voice and they follow Him, He gives them eternal life and no one will pluck them out of His hand..
Saving grace is of the Lord but, and this you seem to miss, the grace of God is provided for all men so that they can turn and trust in Him for salvation. That is why God says we are all without excuse for not knowing Him. Why the gospel is said to be the power of God for salvation and that faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.
Your theological view tends to close off salvation to the vast majority of mankind and you think this shows the love of God because He picked out some that you think you are part of.
What does the bible tell us about who God wants to redeem
1Timothy 2:3-4 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires
all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
I posted this on another thread here it is with some editing
What does the bible tell us about the use of the word "ALL"
Isaiah 53:6 All we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way; And the LORD has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.
Now did Christ have all sin laid on Him or only some sin?
Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
2Corinthians 5:14-15 For the love of Christ compels us, because we judge thus: that if One died for all, then all died; 15 and He died for all, that those who live should live no longer for themselves, but for Him who died for them and rose again.
Double Jeopardy is contrary to the nature, justice and love of God and that's why there is none.
The atonement of Christ is unlimited in its scope, but its full application is conditioned on union with Christ through faith. After all, it is said of the elect that they “were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind” (
Ephesians 2:3); if the atonement was unconditionally applied in full, how could any elect person be under God’s wrath at any point after Christ’s death?
Now we know that Christ died for all (2Co 5:15) and we see here that He was the ransom for all 1Timothy 2:5-6 For there is one God and one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave Himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time,
Now we come to the verses that tell the tale. Here we see exception and distinction shown but not as you may think.
Rom 3:21 But now the righteousness of God apart from the law is revealed, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets,
Rom 3:22 even the righteousness of God, through faith in Jesus Christ, to all (no exception) and on all (distinction)
who believe. For there is no difference;
Rom 3:23 for all (no exception) have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Rom 3:24 being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus,
Rom 3:25 whom God set forth as a propitiation by His blood, through faith, to demonstrate His righteousness, because in His forbearance God had passed over the sins that were previously committed,
Rom 3:26 to demonstrate at the present time His righteousness, that He might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus.
Rom 3:27 Where is boasting then? It is excluded. By what law? Of works? No, but by the law of faith.
Rom 3:28 Therefore we conclude that a man is justified by faith apart from the deeds of the law.
We find the same thing shown in 1 John 2:2 And He Himself is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the whole world.
Christ was the ransom for our sins (those that believe) but the ransom was sufficient to cover all (without exception) the sins of mankind.