There is no need to watch more if you cannot discern the difference. That girl will be back to Paul Washer in six months terrified and crying again, doubting her savation once again, because he did not give her a proper answer from scripture, but is teaching her to rely on an experience.
The fellow from Ft. Lauderdale would teach her to have true assurance from the word of God, not her feelings.
If you cannot discern this, you need to spend some time listening to non-Cal preaching.
Teaching and preaching an experience is scriptural
I have never listened to Paul Washer but if he preaches an experience of Grace I will give him an amen! and it is backed by scripture. If I relied on my on understanding it is fallible, I will rely on the infallibility of God and his word. I have leaned on my experience for 32 years. So yes an experience of Grace is necessary and the scriptures back it up.
In the Old Testament Laban recognized that God had blessed him by experience:
(Gen 30:27) And Laban said unto him, I pray thee, if I have found favour in thine eyes, tarry: for I have learned by experience that the LORD hath blessed me for thy sake.
The preacher in Ecclesiastes speaks of having a great experience:
(Ecc 1:16) I communed with mine own heart, saying, Lo, I am come to great estate, and have gotten more wisdom than all they that have been before me in Jerusalem: yea, my heart had great experience of wisdom and knowledge.
And Paul writes in Romans of having glory in the tribulations leading to patience, experience and hope. This hope makes us not ashamed:
(Rom 5:1) Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:
(Rom 5:2) By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
(Rom 5:3) And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;
(Rom 5:4) And patience, experience; and experience, hope:
(Rom 5:5) And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.
So yes I base my salvation on an experience supported by the scriptures.