No, Phillip, I am reading your responses to me and not seeing my position in them. You are addressing a position that I do not hold. I believe you are misrepresenting my statements and intent, and you do it in this very post. I am not trying throw you off center or destabilize you. Why would I do that? We are having a discussion. I am always willing to learn and interact. Are you?
I have been around more child molesters than you will ever meet and I can tell you one thing, I have seen MANY of them in churches claiming to be Christins (did you not even READ my statement above regarding conversion of child molesters--goodness--talk about NOT reading), I would say 95% or higher HAVE A SCREW LOOSE and WILL do it again.
That's fine. I don't disagree with any of that. My point is that a "screw loose" is an assumption on your part. You can't find that screw, I bet. You can't tell us what that screw is. In fact, I think your earlier statement was based on the idea that someone would have to have a screw loose to do something like that. That, to me, is not sound counseling practice. YOu are diagnosing behavior and thoughts, and those spring most often from the immaterial or spiritual side of man. A heart surrendered to follow Christ does not molest children. I think you overlook the sin issue. At heart, people molest children because they are sinners. A person may be predisposed to a certian behavior because of various factors, but the heart issue is always sinfulness.
I have met many experienced pastors who know this, but obviously pastors that take the attitude that you are will become lax in your protection and boom, there goes your liability.
I find it hard to believe you can comment on my attitude being lax. YOu don't even know what our procedures are here. We have very strict guidelines here for working in the children's ministry. Everyone undergoes a background check because I instituted that procedure a number of years ago. And everyone that works is someone that I have known personally both in and out of the chuch for a number of years. If you want to be involved in the children's ministry here, you have to pass.
You don't have to describe pharmaceuticals to me. You keep building strawmen when I make a statement. SURE they have side effects, ALL MEDICATIONS. What has THIS got to do with you claiming that antidepressants should not be used because, in your mind, even "clinical" depression is sin.
Show me where I said that. I have said repeatedly that sin is an issue in all depression, and is the only issue in
some depression. I have never ruled out chemical issues. If you had read my posts you would have known that. What explanation do you have for not knowing that?
You say
THAT is what I disagree with. It IS chemical imbalance, just as is bipolar syndrome. But how in the world can you comment on every single case of "clinical depression"? Are you really that smart? Of course not. And how can you say it is always chemical imbalance when you admit you cannot test for these chemicals? I reject your simplistic explanation of this issue.
I pointed out what you said about a psychotic and you claim I didn't read your post. GIVE ME A BREAK.
AGain, I merely asked what I said because I didn't remember it. You have given plenty of evidence that you are not reading closely. I pointed out yet another case in teh immediately preceding paragraph. If you had read what I said, then you know that I never said that all clinical depression is the result of sin. Neither is the use of meds always wrong.
You are playing "doctor" just because a simple blood test is not possible for certain afflictions and THAT my friend is DANGEROUS.
I am not playing doctor in the least. That's absurd. I have repeatedly said that a counselee's first homework assignment is to get a physical checkup at the doctor.
These people need "professional" assistance, regardless of what you think of psyciatrists. Use a Christian psychiatrist if need be, but use a professional. Trying to do it yourself will wind you up in civil court so fast your head will spin.
Simply untrue. You indicate very little understanding of the affects of sin on the life and you seem to have not spent much time even thinking about it. Maybe you have thought about it more than you are letting on here. Your approach is dangerous because it can have eternal consequences. A "professional" who is not trained in theology is not equipped to deal with these issues. Period. They have no knowledge of the soul. We have too long let untrained people on both sides pretend like they know more than they do. It is time to stop.
Too many "trained counselors" have no idea how to diagnose and address issues of the soul. Man is a complex being to be sure. There is a material and immaterial side. They interact in various ways that are not fully understood (which is why your claim that clinical depression IS chemical is absurd ... you simply cannot know that). You are speaking way too dogmatically for the amount of information that we have about that issue.
We need more serious interaction than is being given to the topic.
Why won't you tell me if you have read Welch's book? I have asked you two or three times and you keep avoiding the question. Why?