God chose to save us before the foundation of the world
We chose to become like the tax collector once we are humble enough with Gods help to realize our bankrupt state.
Not because we were given some special knowledge because we are regenerated IN SIN, but because God through his revelation, his word, and his people, have helped us to understand our situation.
We chose salvation through Christ. THEN after being born again, God helps us chose to honor him as our father..
typical of a fatalist. You start with vs 6. which is paul answering the question. Has God failed.
9 I tell the truth in Christ, I am not lying, my conscience also bearing me witness in the Holy Spirit, 2 that I have great sorrow and continual grief in my heart. 3 For I could wish that I myself were accursed from Christ for my brethren, my acountrymen according to the flesh, 4 who are Israelites, to whom pertain the adoption, the glory, the covenants, the giving of the law, the service of God, and the promises; 5 of whom are the fathers and from whom, according to the flesh, Christ came, who is over all, the eternally blessed God. Amen.
You do not start a chapter 6 verses out. and then use that to interpret a passage.,
Paul is answer the question in 3 chapters (ch 9 - 11) that has been askked and continually asked even today.
Did God fail
at what?
Choosing Israel..
Look at those chapters in that way, and you will understand what paul is saying
Neither jew or gentile concerns salvation. Romans 9 - 11 is not about who is saved or not. it is about a nation God chose with he chose Abraham, Isaac and Jacob and rescued from Egypt and gave the law.