Even scholars, leading or otherwise, and male teachers of the Church can be misguided sometimes - allowing emotional beliefs to sway their discernment and even leading men can sometimes be, well, as the above blog says, "arbitrary".
Even Billy Graham was wrong sometimes - as much as I love that man, I can show you times where even he was arbitrary.
I don't believe that I was being arbitrary in my posts. I tried my dead-level best to present the words of Jesus just as they were and just as they were meant.
I hate violence and war. Avoid it at as best one can, says me. But it is a part of this world sometimes.
Yes, Christians are to overlook offenses (turn the other cheek) - it says so in Proverbs, also. In fact, it says that it is to a person's glory to overlook an offense.
But if a thief break into my mother's house while I am visiting her and hits her across the left side of her head with the butt end of his gun, I am not going to stand there like a statue and pray that she turns her head and allows him to hit her on the right side of her head.
For those who believe that Jesus was encouraging blind and passive submission to harm and destruction - well, I believe based on Jesus' instructions to his disciples that this is - well, an arbitrary teaching.