Claudia_T said:
Eric
you are impossible, I cant believe you took those verses from Revelation as some sort of thing I was using to "persecute the suffering"
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I was just showing that sometimes God shows someone something they are doing wrong so they can fix it, because He loves them... thats all that I was doing
it seems seriously like you have some sort of a martyr complex towards someone who is suffering. You have no idea whatsoever what I myself have been through.. and am still going through
I have no desire whatever to condemn anyone, but its just impossible to even talk with you if you are going to continue misconstruing everything as someone trying to attack the suffering.
I did not say you were "persecuting" or "attacking" the suffering. Note, that "showing something they are doing wrong so they can fix it" is NOT "all" you and the others are doing, but rather declaring them headed to Hell, based on your belief about particular sins, or with many others, even attitudes!
What I have is not a martyrdom complex, but
compassion; which many using these formulaic responses simply do not have. So no, you don't mean to "attack" them, but don't realize that this stuff you're preaching to them, as unwarranted as it is, comes off to them as just that!
Also, forgot from before:
Claudia_T said:
if you are a Christian you can expect lots of bad stuff to happen because God is going to allow you to go through trials. But these trials are supposed to allow your evil nature to come through so that you can realize what needs changing and fix that.
Through the power of Christ of course, etc and so on
Again, I tried to addrress this specifically on that "others may" thread you started; but I guess these discussions took off, and it got swamped.
We do not know that and mistakenly read it into many of these scriptures. It actually is the same basic thing Job's friends told him, and God was very disappointed in that. He ordered Job to make sacrifice for them, showing the grievousness of their response! But this becomes the "comfort" many will give to the suffering, and if they feel they are not receiving it right, or are too down, and whatnot; then here comes the judgment. This often pushes the person firther into despair (
just like Job!). It could be the thing that pushes them over the edge! But by blaming the victims, we excuse our own coldness and cruelty!
Bad things happen, because it is a fallen world! This whole "God is doing it for your good" and other forms of pacification has often been used to justify inequities and mistreatment in the world. But the world is fallen, and bad things happen to everyone, not just Christians. While the premise of resisting temptation making us grow is true, all of this still seems to tie these circumstances specifically to special acts (or acts of omission) of God in the life of Christians. This would make one think that non-Christians must get everything they want, and have perfect circumstances, then. After all, not getting what one wants is only a divine test for God's children, not a normal part of life, isn't it? (But then, they will point this out, somewhere down the line, again, confusing the person you had just told that God was doing it for some good purpose).
So instead of us playing judge, and trying to convict them of some possible hidden "rejection of Christ" or status as a "dressed up pig", with the danger of Hell (unless they actually do come out and renounce Christ), we should leave all that to God, and try to find better ways to comfort people.
James 2:15, 16; the very passage [you among some others love to quote] speaking about faith without works being dead; speaks clearly about
simply wishing someone "peace" (precisely what people are doing by only citing scriptures on peace and pointing them towards our eternal destiny), and without addressing what he needs in the physical realm. 1 John 3:17, 18 speaks about "shutting up our hearts" to them (what we do when they don't respond the way we think they should).