Look, man stands condemned already thanks to Adam. If not for Christ, not one of us would be saved and still be justly condemned to an eternal hell. But God in His electing love and mercy, sent the very best heaven has to offer to redeem, to save a people...His people...from their sins. This 'force' stuff needs to stop. God does not offer salvation, He gives it to those who never were looking for it, had no desire for it, was running from Him, yet He sought them out and saved them from themselves.
Let's consider the Scriptures instead of philosophizing.
Acts 16:30 And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved?
31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.
--Salvation sought; Salvation received through faith; salvation obtained.
God's salvation, the price paid by Christ, received in faith by the jailer. Very simple.
It is like a baby. It had no say or lot in the matter of being conceived and birthed. This happened when sperm and egg from husband and wife had relations. The bible gives this example...
“Before she goes into labor, she gives birth; before the pains come upon her, she delivers a son. Who has ever heard of such things? Who has ever seen things like this? Can a country be born in a day or a nation be brought forth in a moment? Yet no sooner is Zion in labor than she gives birth to her children. Do I bring to the moment of birth and not give delivery?” says the LORD. “Do I close up the womb when I bring to delivery?” says your God. “Rejoice with Jerusalem and be glad for her, all you who love her; rejoice greatly with her, all you who mourn over her. For you will nurse and be satisfied at her comforting breasts; you will drink deeply and delight in her overflowing abundance.” For this is what the LORD says: “I will extend peace to her like a river, and the wealth of nations like a flooding stream; you will nurse and be carried on her arm and dandled on her knees. As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.” When you see this, your heart will rejoice and you will flourish like grass; the hand of the LORD will be made known to his servants, but his fury will be shown to his foes.[Isaiah 66:7-14]
You simply complicate things with OT allegories. This is not NT salvation is it?
Zion, which is a picture of the church, she gives birth to her children. Christ is her Husband. Man, the unregenerate, have neither lot nor say in this birth which is from above. Man has no ability to believe in God from his cold, dead heart. Once regenerated, birthed from above, born anew, regenerated, he can than exercise faith and repentance and believe and be saved.
Zion is not a picture of the "church."
Not MacArthur, MacDonald nor the Bible Knowledge Commentary agree with you.
MacArthur says:
Here is another comparison with the human birth process (see Isa_13:8), intended this time to teach two lessons: (1) no birth can come until labor pains have occurred (Isa_66:7-8) and (2) when labor occurs, birth will surely follow (Isa_66:9). Cf. Jer_30:6-7; Mat_24:8; 1Th_5:3. The point is that Israel's suffering will end with a delivery! The Lord will not impose travail on the remnant without bringing them to the kingdom (Isa_66:10).
The passage is about Israel not the church.
Now back to the jailer who did what Paul told him to do and was saved; saved because he believed.
Acts 16:38 And the serjeants told these words unto the magistrates: and they feared, when they heard that they were Romans.
39 And they came and besought them, and brought them out, and desired them to depart out of the city.
--Why didn't the magistrates trust Christ upon hearing "these words" and the events that happened?
Surely they had their opportunity! They will give account of themselves some day before God.
They were more interested in their position on earth, in their own earthly affairs than they were about God. They couldn't bother themselves with spiritual things. And so it is with so many today.