Mark,
Firstly, I'd like to ask your forgiveness for any comments I've made in the past that have offended you personally.
Admittedly, in the heat of the back-and-forth and dealing with doctrinal subjects that I take very seriously, it is easy for me to give in to a spirit of criticality and also one of frustration which can lead to anger.
From here on out I'd like to assure you that I will do my best to avoid mis-characterizing you or anyone else, either in your own statements, or your motives.
I thought I was somewhat successful in the past, but I know that I can stand quite a bit of improvement.
With that said, I'm not "Reformed" ( but I realize that to you I may seem that way ), and since I agree with the TULIP as a summary, I'd like to answer your question,
for the record:
No I don't. God is still the determiner no matter what response He requires from us.
According to what I see in your statement above, you seem to believe that since God sets up everything to make it possible for man to respond, then that is what makes salvation 100% "of God".
Is that a fair assessment?
Please correct me if I am wrong.
With this in mind, I'd like to answer your post below.
I'll quote it once to establish a "baseline":
If someone gives you a gift and you reach out and take it, is that taking it you did considered work you had to do to earn that gift?
I'm not sure where you got the idea that gift-giving involved the two elements that I see above (
#1 = The giving of the gift,
#2 = the
active taking of the gift ), but perhaps it is part of the society in which we live.
I know that in other places around the world, gift giving is very much different, and involves only 1 step...the giving of a thing that is totally unexpected, with no conscious awareness of the gift being available until it is placed into the hands of the person receiving it.
Also, true gift giving demands no obligation of the person receiving it, to respond in kind.
To summarize...
A gift is only a gift if the person receiving it doesn't expect it, and,
Does nothing to receive it except stand there.
To answer your question directly:
If someone gives you a gift and you reach out and take it, is that taking it you did considered work you had to do to earn that gift?
Yes.
Actively taking something from the hand of another is considered a reward per the language that I see you using.
To perform an action to gain something, that makes the gift
not a gift...it is now a
reward, because the desired item
can only be gained by the "required action".
If it were strictly a gift, one would not know that it was coming... which is precisely what God's word says that salvation is...a gift ( Romans 6:23 ) that was bestowed to someone who didn't even know they had it ( Romans 10:20 ).
Since
"I was found of them who sought me not" is the rule seen here, then God presents His gift to those who were completely unaware of it, prior to being made aware of it.
That's how it happened for me...
I heard the preaching of the word, and believed on Christ.
No one told me before-hand that I had to be saved by believing ( and if they did, I don't remember it )...I believed, and then realized that I was saved.
The record stand. No reformed person can answer the very reasonable question.
Again, although I am not "Reformed" because I have not taken my understanding traditionally from those who have taught "Reformed theology" down through the years, I think I have answered it for you, and very reasonably, even from a technical standpoint.
A gift is only a gift if it's dropped in your lap.
While I understand why someone would want to obtain the same gift that they see someone else receiving, simply wanting something that someone else has, cannot make that a reality.
The gift
giver must be free to give it to anyone who wants it, and anyone they want to give it to.
Otherwise, it isn't a gift.
I'm sorry if you may not find my answer agreeable, but there it is,
for the record.
May God bless you sir.