To respond to the OP:
I did make it clear from the start. God must pursue us. (I
John 4:19)
I agree.
We love Him, because He first loved us ( which I think is limited to believers ).
We see an example of that with Adam and Eve in the garden after they fell.
Perhaps, and I have heard sermons on that very subject when I was a young believer back in the early 80's.
I think more fitting examples are the parables of the lost sheep, the prodigal son, and the lost talent.
Where does faith come from?
To me ( and I realize we've hashed this out before, to great extent ) faith is a gift ( Ephesians 2:8 ) given by God to His children, authored and finished by His Son ( Hebrews 12:2 ), and that not all men possess ( 2 Thessalonians 3:2 ).
It comes to them by "hearing" the word of God ( Romans 10:17 ), and the Gospel itself has no real power...
But the words, combined with the inner working of the Spirit ( 1 Corinthians 2:9-13 ) are what has made all the difference.
The faith spoken of, is the faith "of Christ", which means to me, that it originates and proceeds forth from Him ( Galatians 2:20, Galatians 3:22 ).
Back to Romans 10:17.
If faith came to all men by hearing ( physically ), then that would rule out the deaf having faith.
If it comes by "hearing" ( exposure, written or otherwise ), then I think it prudent that you should to explain, Scripturally, why some believe and some don't, which the Bible does answer.
However, if it comes by "hearing" spiritually, then there's a problem:
Men don't want to hear from God in their natural state ( 1 Corinthians 2:14 ) and those that are perishing think the preaching of the cross is foolishness, while we that are saved know that it is the power of God ( 1 Corinthians 1:18 ). But the carnal mind, that is at "enmity" with God ( Romans 8:5-8 ), cannot please God.
Why is this important?
It takes faith to please God ( Hebrews 11:6 ), but yet, not all men have it.
Why don't all men have faith?
Because they haven't "heard"?
No, because they haven't "heard", spiritually.
That's where "calling" comes in ( Romans 8:29-30, etc ).
Faith must be a gift, not a reward.
It cannot be the means, but only a vehicle that we "ride in" and do things by, once we have been born from above.
Because it is the evidence of being born from above, not the "pre-requisite". ( Hebrews 11:1 ).
Yes, I agree that:
" Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures." ( James 1:18 )
Who are the "us" that James is speaking to?
Believers.
So, He has begotten believers with the word of truth, not unbelievers.
Again, why do some believe, and some do not?
Why do all men not have faith, even after being subjected to the word of God through the Gospel?
The answer is in John 10:26, John 6:64-65, John 17:2, and Acts of the Apostles 13:48, among many others.
May God bless you abundantly.