So Pastors means shepherds. Certainly woman can shepherd.
Regarding elders, Paul does not specifically say they can be, but heal also does not specifically exclude them. What we have is Paul addressing elders as men, but not excluding it to men only. If we take that passage as absolutely rigid literal then no single man or married man without children that are at least 5 years old could ever be a pastor or an elder. Does your church exclude singles and childless from the office?
Also, many Baptist churches don't even have elders. They have a church council, made up of men and women, as well as a deacon board that functions in a quasi deacon/elder role with men and women participating. In that structure, pastors intermix their title between pastor and elder, but then no lay person is considered an elder.
In other words, many Baptist churches have a non-biblical governance.