The idea that I am "winning" souls for Jesus is a reprehensible thought to me. The entire thought is filled with self-pride and self-righteousness.
By my actions, I, myself, am winning a contest. I am the leader and I will get the prize from the host for being a winner.
It treats God as though He is a game show host who is urging on contestants to win the contest through their own works.
Not one place in scripture expresses such a method of redemption.
We are called to preach reconciliation and share this creed with others:
1 Corinthians 15:3-8
For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. Then he appeared to more than five hundred brothers at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles. Last of all, as to one untimely born, he appeared also to me.
God will make those whom He has chosen alive with Christ as He determines.
Evangelism is not a game show contest. It is a commission from God, to His servants, to share what is of first importance and then move on. God will save those who are His sheep, who hear HIS voice and believe. I am not "winning" anyone. I am just doing the simple task of telling people that which is of first importance. It is humbling not prideful.
Therefore, let us throw out this abominable, prideful, talk of "winning" souls. It is a self-righteous, prideful, mindset that lifts up the servant above the Master. May God forbid.
It is Jesus who wins souls.
He has ordained to use us as instruments however.
Prov.11:30
The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life.
And he that winneth souls is wise.