Only CERTAIN elections took place before the world was created, such as Moses, Jeremiah, & the apostles. And even THEY had to CHOOSE. However, God made them "an offer they couldn't refuse".
Ouch, now that is a claim with no biblical foundation at all.
You completely ignored 2 Peter 3:9.
Let us look at the passage.
Now, the context of Peter's writing is to encourage believer's who are suffering unjust persecution. He is giving them hope and strengthening their faith.
First, he tells them that scoffers would come, following their sinful desires.
He tells us that these scoffers deliberately overlook a fact. God destroyed the world by water and wiped out the evilness of mankind, except for Noah and his family.
He then tells those under persecution to have faith and patience. They should remember a fact. The fact is this:
God is not slow, but he is patient toward...you. Who is the you? Is it the world? No. It is "To those who have obtained a faith of equal standing with ours by the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ:" (2 Peter 1:1).
God is not slow, he is patient toward you.
Why?
Because God is "not wishing that any (of you) should perish, but that all should reach repentance."
This means there are more to come who will "obtain a faith of equal standing" with Peter.
What will happen when all these people reach repentance?
God will come like a thief and God will burn up the heavens and the earth. No water for this judgment of humanity. This time fire will be used. The day of the Lord will have arrived and the saints who cried out for that day will rejoice. Evil will be destroyed forever.
So, you clearly have zero clue what Peter is talking about. You have twisted one verse so that it is wrongly interpreted and applied. You need to stop your abuse of God's word and repent.
2 Peter 3:1-10
This is now the second letter that I am writing to you, beloved. In both of them I am stirring up your sincere mind by way of reminder, that you should remember the predictions of the holy prophets and the commandment of the Lord and Savior through your apostles, knowing this first of all, that scoffers will come in the last days with scoffing, following their own sinful desires.
They will say, “Where is the promise of his coming? For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all things are continuing as they were from the beginning of creation.”
For they deliberately overlook this fact, that the heavens existed long ago, and the earth was formed out of water and through water by the word of God, and that by means of these the world that then existed was deluged with water and perished. But by the same word the heavens and earth that now exist are stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly.
But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a roar, and the heavenly bodies will be burned up and dissolved, and the earth and the works that are done on it will be exposed.