Yeah but isn't it Calvinists the ones who sow the confusion on this subject?
Believing what God said about mankind being fallen and lost in trespass and sin is not "confusion." It is believing God's word.
You say mankind YES can make decisions to do a lot of good things.....but a simple decision like responding to the grace of God he has to have God put that in him.
God does not put a decision into a person. God gives the person a new heart of faith. Eze 36:26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
Now I agree God encourages, convicts the sinner to receive but that' a far cry from putting the actual decision to do so in him.
Again, God does not put a decision in a lost person. He regenerates the lost person by giving him a new heart. Eze 36:26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
You say not of his own merit what you're really saying is if one claims they made a decision for God (albeit with the Holy Spirit's encouragement) just even one saying they made the decision you claim as being in pride.
What I am really says is exactly what I said. And a person believes, repents, and obeys because he has been given that new heart of faith, repentance and obedience.
That is your error with TD.
Believing what God has said about mankind being fallen, lost in trespass and sin, is not an error. It is believing God.
I'd have to say that really doesn't look like a real LOVE relationship with God for without freedom to choose how would you know if you truly loved God?
The lost person does not love God. The lost person hates God. He is the enemy of God. Romans 8:7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
How would he even know if you truly loved him?
The lost man does not love God. He hates God and considers God his enemy. Romans 8:7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
He could never know that unless there was freedom of will.
If the will of the lost man is free then both Paul and the Holy Spirit are liars for they say, in
Romans 8:2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.
Such is why he created free will beings so it can be demonstrated with each individual if their love is genuine.
We love Him because He first loved us. And we know we love Him because we obey Him. 1John 4:19 We love him, because he first loved us. John 14:21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me
Yes free will beings have the potential to create problems BUT he preferred that as compared to a scenario where there could be no REAL LOVE.
Except the bible says the lost man is not free, he is in bondage to the law of sin and death. And the saved man is not free. He is bound to the law of New Life in Christ. Romans 8:2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.