Your statement expresses your opinion. My opinion, in response, is that God does not make trivial choices. He has no step-children.
no opinions without scripture,
Eph 2:1¶
And you
hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins;
Eph 2:2
Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience:
Eph 2:3
Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
Rom 8:29
For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate
to beconformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
Rom 8:30
Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
When did "Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, "?
When were you "t
o beconformed to the image of his Son,"?
notice how one can be called before being justified,?
notice how one is conformed before being called?