You still seem to be missing the biblical concept of free will. Prior to regeneration, a person is only free to persist in rebelling against God. Once regeneration occurs, a person is free to choose to follow God.
You seem to be confused as to what regeneration means Tea.
In theology,
new birth by the grace of God
Webster
The new birth and "regeneration" do not represent successive stages in spiritual experience, they refer to the same event Vine NT
So you have people saved prior them knowing God and choosing to follow Him.
But the bible does not agree with your view
Eph 2:8 For it is by grace you have been
saved through faith
The natural person has the freedom to make choices that align with their own desires, and God has the authority to determine how He will utilize those choices to align with His own desires.
Under your calvinist view God determines all the choices that man will make. The man has no ability to make independent choices.
You keep forgetting your LBCF
"God hath decreed in himself, from all eternity, by the most wise and holy counsel of His own will, freely and unchangeably,
all things, whatsoever comes to pass;"
So your comment does not hold water Tea.
Man can only choose for themselves to seek and believe in God after they have been given a desire to do so.
Well since God desires all men to turn and trust in Him then it would seem that God has given all men the ability to turn and trust in Him. That is unless God is just being less than honest or perhaps He did not get the calvinist memo.
Your version of God even judges those that do not turn and trust in Him which if they can only do so if God gives them that desire really calls into question the character of the God you are referring to.
Yopu are presenting an unbiblical view Tea.
I disagree with whoever said that. Being chosen will inevitably result in salvation, but salvation doesn’t happen until a person believes in Christ.
Then you cannot be a calvinist Tea. If you say you are then you are a really confused one.
There you go falling back to that errant view again Tea. We can be chosen for service but we are only saved when we have freely trusted in God not before. When we are in the "Elect One" then we are one of the elect not before.
It is actually you who ignores verses when you skip ahead to the Philippian jailer, assuming he had the freedom to choose to believe, even though it was established earlier in the chapter that God must open the heart.
Tea nothing has been established except that the jailer responded to the gospel message and freely asked “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” He responded to one of the various means that God used to draw man to Himself.
The calvinist's want to ignore what God does to draw all men. Do you think Christ was wrong when He said he would draw "All Men"? Or are you going to tell me that All actually means Some?
Nobody is asserting that because God opened her heart, that atomically caused her to believe. But He did give her a new nature, and with that, a desire to believe.
Are you suggesting that she had some kind of special revelation because she was worshipping through the law?
Act 16:14 Among those listening was a woman named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth from the city of Thyatira, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message.
Excuse me but where do you see "He did give her a new nature" in that text. You are reading your preconceived views into the text Tea. Lydia was already a worshiper of God and what Paul did was point here to the reality of Christ Jesus.
So were Paul, John, Peter and all the other Jews. Not all that hear the message will accept it, they did not then and they do not now. But according to the calvinist view the only reason that any reject it is because God has determined that they would.
That is not a biblical view but calvinists seem to be quite comfortable with it.
You continue to harp on 4th-century philosophy when I’ve already provided evidence in another
thread that Christians understood unconditional election to be true well before Augustine.
Actually you have not Tea. Clement, according to the text you provided did not support your view.
I keep pointing all you calvinists back to Augustine and the pagan philosophy that he brought into the church and which Calvin and later calvinists have just carried forward to today.
Why anyone would support a philosophy that has pagan teaching in it is a puzzle to me. You are casting away the word of God.
God destroyed the pagan cultures and now calvinism has brought those teachings into the church.